• Motivation Can Be Improved! How Do You Motivate Yourself?

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • August 2, 2018
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    Motivation is something I think about a lot. My first & favorite motivation tool that works for me as an individual is fear. My Dr. told me I was pre-diabetic, I believed him & it scared me. Next Month it will be 8 years I’ve exercised almost every day. Watching… Continue Reading

  • Too Many are Lost in Fantasy & Too Many Lack Imagination

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • March 20, 2018
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    Fantasy leads too many on a wild goose chase & imagination is too easily stifled. What an interesting polarity of both the trouble fantasy can cause & how important imagination can be to explore the possibilities life offers. Both of these are true at the same time. Let’s explore the… Continue Reading

  • Purpose of Life, what is it ? Searching for Meaning?

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • April 11, 2017
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    Recently, a client asked me “What is the purpose of Life?” Everybody has to struggle to answer this question for themselves……. Many people find purpose & meaning through volunteering. Though finding the right niche might be tricky; if you are a mentor you both have to be able to connect… Continue Reading

  • Lies We Tell Ourselves & The Novel The Trespassers

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • December 15, 2016
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    Lies bury truth. Lies we tell ourselves can be especially hard to escape. This is captured by Tanya French in her remarkable new novel in “The Trespasser". She is an author at the height of her craft, building characters a reader can care deeply about in all of their human… Continue Reading

  • Passivity, Anxiety’s Evil Twin

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • February 26, 2016
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    Anxiety is about letting fear drive the train. Fear thrives on passivity. I was inspired to write this because I have so many clients who wait for things to come to them instead of going after what they want. "Uncle Bob knows somebody who can get me a job" and… Continue Reading

  • Marriage, Secrets & Unfinished Business from Childhood

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • January 15, 2016
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    I adored Lauren Groff’s book Fates & Furies. Which inspired this blog post & podcast episode #17. She reveals so many truths through her fiction about secrets & unfinished business & it's impact on marriage. I highly recommend it as a portrait of a marriage with many twists & turns.… Continue Reading

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