• Sex Matters!

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • August 12, 2009
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    Trouble in life is usually found in the extremes. So people allow sex to disappear in their relationship (10 times a year or less is considered non-sexual) or have sex with other people outside the partnership. Some therapists don't even bring up sex and explore it in session with couples. This… Continue Reading

  • Hope, Loneliness & Olive Kitteridge

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • June 13, 2009
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    I begin with a quote from the 2008 Pulitzer Prize winning Olive Kitteridge: Fiction by Elizabeth Strout: "...then Olive felt something she had not expected to feel again: a sudden surging greediness for life...She remembered what hope was, and this was it. That inner churning that moves you forward, plows… Continue Reading

  • Understanding Anxiety, it’s Impact on Relationships & the Swedish Detective Kurt Wallander

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • May 10, 2009
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    Anxiety is the most common problem seen in my line of work. It seems to be a struggle earlier in life for more and more children. Teens who are perfectionists really get beaten up by their own expectations. Perfectionism, obsessing, pervasive self-doubt, fear of encountering either the larger world or… Continue Reading

  • The Kooky Things We Do Always Make Sense & The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • April 9, 2009
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    Psychology uses the words symptoms, defenses or resistance to describe the kooky things we all do. Too often what gets overlooked is how kooky things make sense. So a woman who has the caretaker role in a family becomes depressed and distant because she is drowning in other people's needs and… Continue Reading

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