• Kids Coping with Complicated Sharing After Divorce & Why Truth Matters More

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • December 10, 2010
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    Kids share their parents with new boyfriends & girlfriends, parents share their kids with their ex's new lovers, and kids learn to have new stepsisters and stepbrothers. It's all a very complicated business that is often not done very well. There are too many assumptions about how easy this is… Continue Reading

  • Is There ANY Benefit to Divorce for the Kids?

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • December 4, 2010
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    Working with several divorced families recently made me seriously consider this question. It's obvious that divorce is difficult for children because their whole world collapses. Often the imprint of divorce leaves major trust issues. It is ordinary for an adolescent with divorced parents to say "I'll never get married." Yet… Continue Reading

  • Reduce Ugliness in Divorce/Think about the Kids

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • June 12, 2010
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    Clearly, relief from becoming divorced is not enough because so many people fall into the trap of continuing the habit of ugliness. It's as if all the broken dreams, false expectations and harbored resentments have Miracle-Gro added to the mix. Danny DeVito plays a lawyer in the movie The War… Continue Reading

  • Coping After Someone Dumps You

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • April 16, 2010
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    Letting go of someone you've loved can be exquisitely hard to do for many people. If you've been taken by surprise, if you've been misleading yourself about how they feel or if you've been lied to, full recovery can seem just out of reach. It's so human to torture yourself… Continue Reading

  • Surviving Your Broken Heart in Divorce

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • November 20, 2009
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    It is a sad truth that fifty percent of marriages end up in divorce. Women are the ones who leave. Seventy five percent of divorce is initiated by women. There are so many reasons a relationship will end. One person gets a DUI and the other partner has to face… Continue Reading

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