Category archives: More Opportunities
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"When I was raped I lost my virginity & almost lost my life. I also discarded certain assumptions I had held about how the world worked & about how safe I was." Alice Sebold
Trauma includes experiencing the terrible sins of war, rape, or incest. Trauma makes you question the very core of ... [read more]
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"People refuse to recognize complexity, he said. What's shame in one man is grief in another, and they are not the same thing. What's pig-stupidity is cowardice in another and blind in a third, and they are not the same thing, either. You'd think that would be simple enough to understand but it'... [read more]
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"...it is so profoundly dangerous [that] we are losing our tolerance for vulnerability... vulnerability is absolutely at the core of fear and anxiety and shame and very difficult emotions that we all experience. But vulnerability is also the birthplace of joy, of love, of belonging, of creativit... [read more]
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"Remember that too much obedience will end up in spite." - Fritz Perls
"When you are a parent you are asked two questions a thousand times a day. Do you love me? Are you tough enough to handle this?" - Bob Vandepol
Parenting Teens
Remember that acting out is the beginning of independence.... [read more]
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"Motherhood had been very real, very quotidian [ordinary], a primal human relationship, full of devotion and effort and strain, fraught with bitter calculation and the intimate battle of wills."
- from Holy Fire by Bruce Sterling
"The realities of well-intentioned workaholic households don't a... [read more]
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"Trash has given us an appetite for art."
- Pauline Kael
Note: Six terrific movies that capture the victim, rescuer, persecutor drama triangle are listed on the manipulation page of this website. It's worth the effort to educate yourself about this game before you see the movies. It's a game pla... [read more]
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"The world was meant for you and me To figure out our destiny(A Thousand Beautiful Things)
To Live,To Die,To Breathe,To Sleep,To try to make your life complete- Lyrics from the song A Thousand Beautiful Things by Annie Lennox
Happiness:
Happiness is not a goal. Happiness is a by-product of li... [read more]
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"Guilt was not merely a weakness, it was misleading, casting one's entire life into doubt."
- From Making Things Better by Anita Brookner.
Guilt:
Feeling Guilty? You are certainly not alone. Feeling Guilty is like suffering in the tight grasp of a python. Exaggerated guilt is a problem ... [read more]
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""To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you."" - Lewis B. Smedes
"When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free... [read more]
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"Family love is messy, clinging, and of an annoying and repetitive pattern like bad wallpaper." - Friedrich Nietzsche
"The family is one of nature's masterpieces." - George SantayanaFamilies are a group of people who have shared history together. When families spend time together it helps us ha... [read more]
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"A book should be an ax for the frozen sea within us." - Kafka
"A room without books is as a body without a soul." - Cicero
There are sooo many wonderful books. One of my favorite things is to pass on excellent book choices to other people. My home is lined with bookshelves because I love owni... [read more]
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"I'm disappearing, avoiding most things." - Syd Barrett
"Neurosis is the way of avoiding non-being by avoiding being." -Paul TillichWe are amidst an epidemic of denial which is all about avoiding and deflecting. Denial is all about self deception. The world is indeed a scary place because there... [read more]
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