You will learn to stop hanging onto false hopes & no longer ignore your own suspicious inner voice?
You will learn NOT to swallow your anger.
You will learn to interrupt your pattern of being over responsible.
You will stop feeling lost in relationships.
You will no longer be so easily taken in by others, give up being too sappy?
You will no longer allow others to suffocate your own spirit or creativity?
You will stop minimizing your problems in relationships & no longer avoid addressing them?
Everyone manipulates to get what they want. Even three-year-olds. Emotional manipulators, take it to a whole another level. They play games to make sure they have power in the relationship. They say the words, so you believe them, and then there’s no follow through, no actions.
When you address the problem of no actions, you end up being blamed. Then you become the problem, because you did something wrong. They never do anything wrong. You begin to feel disappointing and not good enough. Your focus becomes all about them, so they don’t get angry.
You dance so carefully on the eggshells, never, ever pleasing them enough, stop and consider how you go about relationships, and participating in letting others take advantage of you. Real change requires understanding, how all the layers of not feeling good enough about yourself have ended up in you being manipulated.
When you feel less than, you are preparing yourself to be manipulated, because you have set yourself up to be emotionally dependent on someone else to feel okay. I’m going to say that again. You have set yourself up to be emotionally dependent on someone else to feel okay. NOT a good idea.
What’s the opposite of being emotionally dependent? To be more whole, more self-reliant, to interrupt the ugliness you feel about yourself. Take this course to learn more about how to go about doing those things and to stop being manipulated.