• Purpose of Life, what is it ? Searching for Meaning?

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • April 11, 2017
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    Recently, a client asked me “What is the purpose of Life?” Everybody has to struggle to answer this question for themselves……. Many people find purpose & meaning through volunteering. Though finding the right niche might be tricky; if you are a mentor you both have to be able to connect… Continue Reading

  • We All Want to be Understood

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • April 20, 2011
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    "All of us are caught up in what Brooks calls 'the loneliness loop.' What drives us ultimately, is the need to feel understood by others."  3/7/11 Newsweek article on David Brooks & his new book The Social Animal Sometimes the impossibility of communicating accurately is overwhelming. Feeling understood is basic… Continue Reading

  • Accepting Imperfections is What Makes Relationships Work

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • January 10, 2011
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    [youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mx9ocubowMs&fs=1&hl=en_US] This you tube video ia all about love. Authentic love is all about embracing the imperfections of someone else. So many of my younger clients seem to be on a path of requiring perfection in a partner. Nobody gets all the pieces of the pie. Too many of us… Continue Reading