• Fear of Differences and A Single Man (the movie)

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • December 20, 2010
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    I write this to honor the end of the military ban on Gays serving openly. The 2009 movie A Single Man is brilliantly acted by Colin Firth. He plays a gay man in the 1960's whose partner of 16 years dies in an accident and he considers taking his own… Continue Reading

  • Parallel Monologues vs. Real Dialogue

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • January 30, 2010
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    In my work with families and couples, I experience most people communicating in parallel monologues. Neither person is able to absorb, digest or really appreciate a point of view that is opposite of their own. Both people are so filled up with their own thoughts and feelings there is simply… Continue Reading

  • Trouble in Years 6 to 10 is Ordinary

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • December 14, 2009
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    Think about falling in love: you know you're special when the other person remembers your favorite song, buys your favorite flower and listens for the nuances of who you are. This is a superficial elegance that gets lost over time because it is ordinary to find differences tiresome in years… Continue Reading

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