• Men get Overwhelmed & Women Often don’t Notice

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • August 30, 2009
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    There is a common pattern in heterosexual couples that is deadly to growth and progress. Women come into the office, with a number of issues, that build up into an emotional intensity that leaves males completely overwhelmed. Men watch the emotions pile up and think to themselves "if she feels this… Continue Reading

  • Taking the Easy Way Out

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • August 4, 2009
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    It seems I meet more and more people who are comfortable with taking the easy way out, like water seeking a down hill path. Teens who avoid looking for a summer job. Teens who casually announce they "don't do food service jobs". College grads who expect to walk into well… Continue Reading

  • Too Many Silent Men & the Price Couples Pay

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • July 4, 2009
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    There's an old joke that women like silent men because they think they're listening. My experience is that the opposite is true. When men are silent about their wants everyone suffers. Women are often able to talk to their girlfriends about everything and anything (Sex in the City is evidence… Continue Reading