• The Triangle Straight to Hell

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • January 18, 2011
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    Three emotions that drive people to profound misery are fear, obligation and guilt. All three of these are easy to exaggerate. These three work in combination to suffocate the life out of ordinary people, like  a python with a good grip. A healthy approach to guilt is to consider what… Continue Reading

  • Parents Visiting, Obligation or Genuine Interest?

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • May 25, 2009
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    My husband and I grew up with a sense of obligation to be with our parents. It is interesting that neither of us was ever able to move very far beyond that. So it came as a surprise when I asked my son how he felt when we visited him… Continue Reading