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This course is for People Pleasers in Lopsided Relationships. If you answer yes to any of these questions then this course is for you:

Are You Overly Generous CONSTANTLY to your partner ?

Are you constantly stressed out trying to make everyone else happy?

Do You feel you run around & take care of everyone else & ignore your own needs?

Do you too often go along with what everyone else wants?

Are you always trying to make everyone else happy when you are not?

Are you afraid to assert yourself & hesitant to ask for what you want?

Do you lack self confidence?

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You will learn to:

Be More Authentic

Ask for what you want

Express your own opinions

Set limits & boundaries

To have more confidence to let others know who you really are

To feel more empowered

I promise you your nice will not disappear it will be more in balance!


Are you stuck in people pleasing? Do you smile when you don't mean it? Are you overly generous? Have you created a lopsided relationship? There's a huge payoff in being all of these things: You are liked. People think you're great, being nice wins, but sometimes you leave yourself out. So in my practice, I give people index cards, and this is one of my favorite ones to hand out. And I fold it down the middle, because I want them to put it by their toothbrush and look at it, because I'm trying to change your thinking, especially when you're stuck in thinking that being overly generous is the best way to be. There's a huge payoff to believing that. So it's really hard to think about, what might be the opposite of overly generous? Most people will answer, selfish. I'm going to ask you to think about it as self-protective, that's an entirely different frame of reference that will benefit you in the long run (so put it on an index card by your toothbrush).

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This was my first time doing a course for therapy. I haven’t had lots of luck with romantic relationships and got to the point where I was done with them completely. This course helped me progress even further in the comfort of my own home & I never got bored or frustrated with it. The exercises and homework let you further explore and confront your problem spots while giving you tools to improve. It addressed a lot of aspects of relationships. With it, I have been able to improve myself. It helped me gain more self respect, confidence, improved mental health and ways to deal with problems when they occur. I can finally say I’m ready to take another chance with dating and see where it goes.

R. Porter

Rhoda shares the insights I needed in a direct, blunt yet kind way that helped me feel better about myself. She breaks down big changes into manageable steps that I can make happen. Really down to earth. Really good & worth it!


I learned I’m an anxious attacher & how I’ve gone after distancers instead of controlling my own anxiety to wait for someone worthwhile. The dating course explained a lot about why things haven’t worked out for me in the past.


Dating has been so discouraging to me. Rhoda’s course gave me hope again & new ways to think so that I can get out of my own way! I learned a lot.


Dating isn’t easy to keep doing. I love the idea of practicing being more authentic on dates. Thinking more about how I push people away was really helpful. Really glad I took the course & think I’ll try another one!


I felt really bad about myself because I’ve been with 2 manipulative partners. I don’t believe I really recognized I had choices until taking this course. What a lot to learn about drama!


I learned a lot about finding my own voice. I made too many excuses for people & forgave so easily that I began to feel lost & invisible. I feel like now I have a fresh start because of the course.


I especially appreciated all the ways to think about having true power within myself. It’s been a long road to having more self respect but Rhoda’s course gave me new ways to think about it & practical ideas to pursue.