Marriage can be full of ambivalence. Many couples are saturated & stuck in it. These couples are secretly in love with the certainty of maintaining the status quo, like going on the exact same vacation every year for two decades. There are too many partners who are afraid to explore either getting better or parting […]

Power struggles in relationships are totally ordinary & daily. They can be small about the most efficient way to drive somewhere to the more extreme giant deal breakers; “Do you want children, I don’t.” It’s not fair if one partner always goes along to get along. Things can work in a couple where power is […]

Together over the years is not an easy job. We delude ourselves in the easy beginnings because the fantasy of staying together seems a simple path of love. Together over the years means work & learning skills & facing hard truths about ourselves. Listen to this episode to learn more about growing together by staying […]

Insecure? & How it Contaminates Relationships Episode #41 Insecurities are something everybody has & everybody struggles with. Parents most often unwittingly contribute to them or can even intentionally pile on doubt to growing egos. Situations like being bullied in school, having a boss with a personality disorder or a very emotionally abusive boyfriend can all […]

Marriage Goals & Relationship Goals for 2018 are all about this 40th episode. I’ve been podcasting a little over 2 1/2 years and I want to thank you my listeners for over 60,000 downloads!I hope you will keep letting others know! We arrive in this world with very few skills to help us navigate relationships. […]

GRIEF is about how you feel inside after you’ve experienced a loss. We all experience many losses in life; death of a loved one is, for some, the most challenging. Interview with Jan McCarthy M.S.W.Her email: [email protected] Share the Love & Spread the Word PLEASE Tweet or SHARE on Facebook (sooooo helpful)Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: […]