• Communication Breakdown: Overcoming Challenges in High-Conflict Relationships

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • April 16, 2024
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    Everybody can get stuck in repeating patterns of ugly disagreement. Frustrations run high & solutions seem impossible. Communication can so easily break down for so many reasons. The intensity of the unhappiness that never gets resolved leads to a familiar stickiness that neither feels able to dig out of...The good… Continue Reading

  • Feelings Unleashed: Understanding & Harnessing Emotions

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • March 26, 2024
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    Emotions are messy and confusing - they can so easily take us for a ride. Loneliness can carry us into bad relationships. Our fears can keep us isolated & prevent understanding others. Our shame can ruthlessly feed self-doubt & self-torture. Our resentments & unspoken anger can keep us stuck. We… Continue Reading

  • Shame’s Stranglehold On You & Your Relationships

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • March 14, 2024
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    Shame strikes at the core of an individual's self-worth. When individuals feel ashamed, they believe that they, themselves, are bad, rather than simply acknowledging that they have done something wrong, which is why shame can be a massive roadblock to healing for so many people. Shame is a powerful and… Continue Reading

  • DENIAL & SELF-DECEPTION DAMAGE RELATIONSHIPS

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • February 13, 2024
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    Accepting reality and acknowledging one's strengths and weaknesses is essential for personal development. By denying or distorting reality, individuals may miss opportunities for growth, self-improvement, and reaching their full potential. So lying to ourselves definitely stunts our growth. https://oembed.libsyn.com/embed?item_id=29850463 Everyone uses denial….I’ve always laughed out loud at the expression “You… Continue Reading

  • HOW COUPLES CAN WIN WITH FINANCES

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • January 16, 2024
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    Money & how to manage this difficult subject as a team instead of ignoring the problems or constantly fighting. Money is a powerful force that touches every aspect of our lives, and when it comes to romantic partnerships, it can be a source of unity or division.  https://oembed.libsyn.com/embed?item_id=29500213 In this… Continue Reading

  • HUNTING DOWN THE RIGHT THERAPIST

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • January 2, 2024
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    Therapy is a process that has to be honest…it is both an art & a science in my mind. It is impossible to grow if both of your feet are in comfort & support. You need to straddle the line between support, safety & being challenged or uncomfortable. Therapy requires… Continue Reading

  • From Clashes to Connection: Using Disagreement to Deepen Relationships

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • December 5, 2023
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    Agreement and harmony are too often celebrated as the cornerstones of strong relationships, it is only in the presence of healthy disagreement that truly adds depth, resilience, and growth to these bonds. Disagreement, when approached constructively and respectfully, can foster better understanding, promote critical thinking, and lead to enhanced empathy… Continue Reading

  • Sleep: Separating Fact from Fiction for Better Sleep and Stronger Relationships

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • November 17, 2023
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    Sleep is a universal experience that affects everyone. Today we will discuss sleep hygiene, sleep disorders, and sleep-related issues in relationships, you will gain valuable information and strategies for improving your sleep and overall well-being. Sleep is particularly relevant to relationships, as poor sleep habits can impact both partners and… Continue Reading

  • Building Trust: The Foundation Of Strong Relationships

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • November 4, 2023
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    It's no secret that trust is one of the most important elements in a relationship. It gives it its foundation, making sure everything else can fall into place and stay there. Without trust, relationships don't stand much chance for success - infidelity or poor communication can lead to disputes which… Continue Reading

  • Unlocking The Secret To No More Arguing

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • October 2, 2023
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    Couples need guidance for navigating conflict wisely and skillfully. Hearing what someone has to say is integral in communication, particularly when working through a conflict. Being able to really listen and take in another person's perspective can be the difference between resolving an argument or making it worse. Good listening means… Continue Reading

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