• IN-LAW PROBLEMS & WHAT TO DO ABOUT THEM

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • May 9, 2022
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    Let’s examine in-laws who can help young couples or derail them on the path to relationship success. The biggest reasons for tension include in-laws giving unwanted opinions, partners taking their parents' side, and disagreements over how to discipline grandchildren. https://oembed.libsyn.com/embed?item_id=22972397 Two thousand married Britons took part in the 2017 study… Continue Reading

  • Dating Advice To Find Success In Love

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • April 17, 2022
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    Dating is a lot of work! It is all too easy to end up discouraged & want to give up because someone else has once again not followed through & just disappeared. Family & friends often don’t appreciate how painful & difficult the process of dating can be. There is… Continue Reading

  • ANGRY MEN & WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • March 21, 2022
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    https://oembed.libsyn.com/embed?item_id=22522607 Anger is an important tool in the emotional toolbox & the most misunderstood of emotions. Anger gives you energy to burn , it can be a rocket ship to get you out of a bad relationship. Anger is used to be unfair, to mistreat others & to make certain… Continue Reading

  • Obsessive Doubt About Relationships & The Fear Of Commitment

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • March 1, 2022
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    Do you obsess over your partner’s flaws? Does thinking about the future of your relationship leave you imagining the worst-case scenario? When it comes to navigating the world of romantic relationships, some feelings of anxiety, doubt, and fear are to be expected. But if your fears so extreme that they… Continue Reading

  • THE ART & WORK OF RELATIONSHIPS

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • February 3, 2022
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    A collection of wisdom on making relationships work over the decades. You’ve heard me say often “Love is wanting to be a better person for your partner.” So partnerships grow us into better versions of ourselves. There is purpose to being in relationships & it’s not about having an audience… Continue Reading

  • INSECURE ATTACHMENT & WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • January 3, 2022
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    Everybody deals with insecurity & it has a huge negative impact on relationships. The focus for those who are insecure is what’s wrong with my partner? Secure attachment, is not about playing games, you’re not trying to win or have power over the other person. It’s not a perfect situation. Secure… Continue Reading

  • Intercultural Relationships & Understanding the Complexity

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • December 1, 2021
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    In intercultural & in interracial relationships as well, you don't always know what you're getting yourself into. Often, it takes several years, several challenges, a lot of conflict within couples to really figure out what it is that seems to be the issue or why it even is an issue... Both individuals… Continue Reading

  • DIVORCE: THE FINAL OPTION

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • November 1, 2021
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    Divorce often happens in year 6 to 10. research finds year 8 to be ordinary. In the 50s, it was called “The Seven Year Itch’. If your relationship is struggling in these years, it is an ordinary development. I can’t say that enough. It is ordinary to struggle in years… Continue Reading

  • Choices & Their Impact On Relationships PART 2

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • October 4, 2021
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    Life is chock full of choices. There are choices that are self defeating or even self destructive. Then there are choices that are life generating. It’s our choices that make up our life. It’s our choices that make the difference in having success in our relationships. Even when we feel… Continue Reading

  • Healthy Self-Esteem Is Critical For Healthy Relationships

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • September 1, 2021
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    Many relationships begin because one person is grabbing onto someone else to feel ok. Everybody wants to be loved, but the solution to this, is the age old wisdom that you have to love yourself first. Taking responsibility for our own choices & learning to accept both the good & the… Continue Reading

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