• Intercultural Relationships & Understanding the Complexity

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • December 1, 2021
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    In intercultural & in interracial relationships as well, you don't always know what you're getting yourself into. Often, it takes several years, several challenges, a lot of conflict within couples to really figure out what it is that seems to be the issue or why it even is an issue... Both individuals… Continue Reading

  • DIVORCE: THE FINAL OPTION

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • November 1, 2021
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    Divorce often happens in year 6 to 10. research finds year 8 to be ordinary. In the 50s, it was called “The Seven Year Itch’. If your relationship is struggling in these years, it is an ordinary development. I can’t say that enough. It is ordinary to struggle in years… Continue Reading

  • Choices & Their Impact On Relationships PART 2

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • October 4, 2021
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    Life is chock full of choices. There are choices that are self defeating or even self destructive. Then there are choices that are life generating. It’s our choices that make up our life. It’s our choices that make the difference in having success in our relationships. Even when we feel… Continue Reading

  • Healthy Self-Esteem Is Critical For Healthy Relationships

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • September 1, 2021
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    Many relationships begin because one person is grabbing onto someone else to feel ok. Everybody wants to be loved, but the solution to this, is the age old wisdom that you have to love yourself first. Taking responsibility for our own choices & learning to accept both the good & the… Continue Reading

  • WHAT CAN YOU DO TO MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP BETTER?

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • August 4, 2021
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    So often in relationships we are quick to focus our unhappiness on our partner. It’s their fault things don’t get better, right? It’s way too easy to blame others & not look at ourselves. Today I  invited Dr. Abby Medcalf on the show because I like her convictions about looking… Continue Reading

  • Silent Resentments & Unasked Questions Are Engines of Unhappiness

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • July 6, 2021
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    Stop & think about how many times you paint a picture in your head about somebody else & later you find out how wrong you really were. We all use the shortcut of making assumptions to fill in the gaps. You know what they say about assumptions & it’s so… Continue Reading

  • TRAUMA AFFECTS RELATIONSHIPS

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • July 5, 2021
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    Trauma deeply challenges our sense of safety and security in the world, which often has an impact on relationships. It’s natural for those who have suffered trauma to feel that building close relationships is frightening because they don’t want to experience more hurt. Someone who is coping with trauma may… Continue Reading

  • Responding Instead of Reacting When Communicating

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • May 3, 2021
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    Responding is harder to do because it is more complicated than simply defensively reacting. This episode will help you think about how to respond to your partner. Respecting your partner is all about responding & reacting is only all about you. Communication improves dramatically when there is a higher percentage… Continue Reading

  • Erectile Dysfunction & Male Sexual Avoidance

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • April 1, 2021
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    Erectile Dysfunction impacts relationships & couples don’t know how to talk about it & don’t have enough information about it, so today is all about correcting this problem. Just a few statistics: In 2018 the National Institute of Health estimated that ED affects about 1/3 of men. In 2019 there… Continue Reading

  • MONEY HARMONY IN RELATIONSHIPS

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • March 3, 2021
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    Money & sex are the two things couples argue most about. Most couples don't want to talk about it because they fight. Budgets are like diets, they don't work. Learn here how to think about a spending plan. Instead of beating yourselves up for your past attempts at trying to talk… Continue Reading

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