• Couples Fighting & the Movie Before Midnight

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • July 31, 2013
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    This movie offers a glimpse of real life in the fighting between Ethan Hawke & Julie Delpy after 20 years of being together. In the first 6 to 9 years there is a lot of catering that goes on in the name of love. Then the illusions fall off &… Continue Reading

  • Relationships: 6 More Ideas to Improve Them (Part 2)

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • May 19, 2013
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    How do you know when relationships are successful? What goals are therapists looking for when they do couples work? The following 6 ideas might improve your relationships: 1. It's crucial that both people feel able to be authentic with each other. In relationships trust matters and trust depends on authenticity.… Continue Reading

  • What’s Love Got to do with it??????

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • September 11, 2012
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    The Beatles were wrong in their lyrics "All you Need is Love." because that's only true for the first 6 through 9 years. Love makes the beginning of relationships so wonderfully, gloriously CERTAIN. Love keeps us drunk with certainty. It's Tina that knows the truth. Beginnings are the hardest part… Continue Reading

  • How to Stay Married Part 1

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • July 14, 2012
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    This post is written for my son Aaron who marries Kate today. I love this picture because it captures their playfulness together. Love is crucial because it greases the beginnings. It's also not enough to sustain a marriage to last more than a decade. Love depends on trust, honesty &… Continue Reading

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