• Integrity is All About Self-Confrontation

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • December 9, 2014
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    Integrity is the difference between being nice and being good. We live in a world that too easily values nice because nice is easy to do. Good is a whole lot more hard work. The Big Bad Wolf was really nice to Little Red Riding Hood before he ate her… Continue Reading

  • Sex Matters!!! Stop Pretending it Doesn’t!

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • April 7, 2014
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    Sex over the long haul is not mastered by many. Sex in America seems to be in the extremes, people are having it a lot or not at all. I've talked to many women over the years that label sex as a chore that they are too tired for. Men… Continue Reading

  • Anxiety About Sex & the movie The Sessions

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • November 27, 2012
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    This is based on the true story of a man who spent most of his life in an iron lung because of polio. (I remember polio as a big deal because my oldest cousin wore a brace because of it.) He is a virgin who decides to explore the world… Continue Reading

  • Women, Own Your Sexuality!

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • December 6, 2011
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    Women often struggle to achieve orgasm because their thinking interferes with feeling their own sexual arousal. If a woman does not understand how to bring herself to orgasm it's really unfair to expect your partner to solve the problem for you. It's your body to learn about, it begins with… Continue Reading

  • Why Aren’t We Having Sex?

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • August 8, 2010
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    Last week a client asked me why so many women give up on their sex life. Last week I told a female client who is 35 years old, that she was missing out on her sexual peak because she is too tired to sort things out with her husband. Many… Continue Reading

  • Women’s Bodies

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • January 10, 2010
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    The most beautiful prostitute I ever worked with was completely unrecognizable 20 years later when she approached me in a theatre crowd. She had grown her body into a thick fortress  which I easily imagined would ward off all male advances. While I was surprised, I completely understood. Women can… Continue Reading

  • Sex Matters!

    • Rhoda Mills Sommer
    • August 12, 2009
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    Trouble in life is usually found in the extremes. So people allow sex to disappear in their relationship (10 times a year or less is considered non-sexual) or have sex with other people outside the partnership. Some therapists don't even bring up sex and explore it in session with couples. This… Continue Reading